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Disarming Chronic Critics
June 14, 2010
Grandson, children are the purpose of life, we were once children and someone cared for us, and now it is our time to care.
-Eddie Bellerose, Cree Elder
Difficult people can "...slow you down, upset your equilibrium, and drain your energy," observes Connie Merritt writing in Work & Family Life (June 2010; workandfamilylife.com).  She gives this advice for dealing with chronic critics...

"Snide comments can be deflating.  But when you call people on it, they often say, 'Oh, I was just kidding.'  Critics also use dramatic sighs, eye rolls, and thumbs down gestures.  Try these responses:

  • "Aim for an alternative to sniping.  Ask: 'Do you have anything to add?'
  • "Smoke the person out.  'That sounded like an insult.  Did you mean it that way?'
  • "Expose covert gestures.  'What did you mean by that.'
  • "Seek group consensus of the criticism.  'Does anyone else see it that way?'  If the group agrees, ask, 'Can you be more specific?'"

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Nirmal Kumar Ghosh · June 14, 2010
Shishu Vikash Kendra
Kolkata, West Bengal, India


Every person should have the primary qualities those are absolutely of himself
Difficult people can do their works but the man Who is an iron determiner
never change his / her decisions .

Nan Pangarkar · June 14, 2010
Happy Time Education Ctr.
Mount Vernon, Illinois, United States


I enjoy reading you quote everyday before going to work. Thanks for free news service to child care directors.
Nan



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