I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
-Maya Angelou
In their book,
Leadership and the Sexes, Michael Gurian and Barbara Annis look at the science of male/female brain differences and how these differences impact their approach to leadership. They note these specific management style differences:
- Male leaders tend to be moire prescriptive in their management -- they will prescribe, direct, tell people what to do more aggressively, in general, than women do.
- Female leaders tend to be more descriptive in their management -- they tend to describe what they are looking for and spend more time detailing to employees -- and hearing from employees -- how to accomplish the goal...
- In conflict management, men tend to seek out more direct conflict than women...
- Although certainly many men are conflict-avoidant with other men, males who usually show no aversion to conflict can become conflict-avoidant, or even relatively ineffective in conflict, when facing workplace conflicts with women.
- Because women remember interactions, including conflicts, longer than men, men may perceive that women are holding on to a grudge, and thus distrust female managers.
- When judging employees, women tend to be more forgiving than men are of others, especially men who fail.
[Note: Gurian and Annis sprinkled this commentary with frequent reminders that there are clearly exceptions to these rules.]
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