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"U.S. studies show that women who return to work later in the first year after giving birth are less depressed. Infant mortality rates are lower, too, and women are more likely to breastfeed. Yet the U.S. is one of only six countries in the world — in the company of Australia, Lesotho, Liberia, Papua New Guinea, and Swaziland — with no government mandate for paid maternity leave."
This item comes to us from the article, "
French Leave," in
Pink magazine (September, 2008). The article indicates, however, that in countries with generous parental leave, there are mixed opinions on its value. Many women praise it and take full advantage, while others fear that when they return to work they will have fallen behind their peers in fast-paced jobs. In fact, a study by the Paris-based Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) found that "84% of men in the EU had not taken advantage of parental leave, nor were they intending to do so, mainly because of financial loss and fear of career damage."
This same OECD study concluded that the optimal period for parental leave seems to be around four to six months. "Most employers said that the mothers didn't feel it was right to go back before then," reported OECD senior economist Willem Adema, "but if they're out longer, they start to lose skills and it becomes doubtful they'll actually return."
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Comments (3)
Displaying All 3 CommentsGermantown, WI, United States
To give parental leave to both mother and father even though the father doesn't take it, prevents hiring discrimation. The 6-8 moth phase is considered the attachment phase of an infant, so anything less than a year is harmful to the infant. The World Health Organization suggests breastfeed for the baby's first two years. Someone needs to put the baby first. Either the mother or the father or both, or just don't have a baby. The baby does not develop object permanence until 2 years of age. That means that a baby undergoes the stress akin to an adult, say a husband or wife, who leaves without saying where they are going or when they are ever coming back. See research on daycare and stress. So it is mandatory that a baby has at least 2 years of nurturing. Society will bend around the family if the family stands firm. It is in everyone's best interest.
PACER Parenting
Ireland
6 months may be optimum re the empoyer's viepoint re parental leave.
what bout the neds of the infant and the parent?
United States
we have FMLA
That goes far enough.
Taxing the population to achieve what some think is the "way it should be" is wrong.
We now work Half the year to just pay taxes.
No More.
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