Adversity is an opportunity for creativity, because it forces one to dig deeper and discover something new about oneself.
-Paul T.P. Wong
ExchangeEveryDay readers are quick to comment when something incites them. Many readers rightfully expressed their displeasure at the headline for the message on Thursday, September 8 — "Advice to Families with Disabled Children." Readers suggested we follow the guidelines of the People First Language as described in the Disability is Natural web site...
"For too long, people who happen to have conditions we call 'disabilities' have been subjected to devaluation, marginalization, prejudice, and more. And the first way to devalue someone is through language, by using words or labels to identify a person/group as 'less-than,' as 'the others — not like us,' and so forth. Once a person/group has been identified this way, it makes it easier to justify prejudice and discrimination. Our language shapes our attitudes; our attitudes shape our language; they're intertwined. And our attitudes and language drive our actions!
"Using People First Language — putting the person before the disability — and eliminating old, prejudicial, and hurtful descriptors, can move us in a new direction. People First Language is not political correctness; instead, it demonstrates good manners, respect, the Golden Rule, and more — it can change the way we see a person."
Readers may also be interested in viewing the YouTube video "People First Language"
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Comments (7)
Displaying All 7 Commentsrise and shine preschool
newhall, CA, United States
As a mom to a severely disabled 15 year old daughter (she has cerebral palsy), I was NOT offended in the slightest with your headline "Advise to Families with Disabled Children". People need to stop being so hyper-sensitive.
Thank you for your outstanding articles, advise, assistance, and references and referrals to everyone in the field of Early Childhood Education. I have been a subscriber for YEARS and have always found your magazine articles and daily emails to be quite useful and very helpful. THANK YOU!!!
Michelle Du Prey
Child Care Council of Suffolk, Inc.
Commack, NY, United States
Excellent information about Using People First Language. Thank you so much!
United States
I have to agree that I did not see an "apology" in the article either.
Schnecksville, PA, United States
Thanks for your quick response and updated information on People First Language. I know there is a lot of good info that still applies from years ago. When we go back to it sometimes we can see how far we have come or the changes that we have been able to make in the field.
United States
The headline used the word "apology," yet I did not see one in the body of the email. Did I miss it, or was there not really an apology there?
Also, as the parent of a child with Down syndrome, I found Thursday's message a little ... patronizing, maybe? The information - balance your attention between children, ask for help from your spouse, etc. - seemed very outdated and like advice that most people would already know. I came away from that message without gaining a single thing.
United States
Thank you for correcting this. I appreciate that you not only corrected the error but also gave more information so that others could be educated also in People First Language. Thank you again for helping us all to improve the quality of services we provide not only in our professional lives but also our personal lives.
United States
Thank You for addressing this. Susan
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