Five Reflections for Fostering Equity and Reciprocity

10/20/2022

Five Reflections for Fostering Equity and Reciprocity

I think books are like people, in the sense that they’ll turn up in your life when you most need them.
Emma Thompson, actor

Nicole Parks and Judy Jablon, of Leading for Children offer “Five Commitments of Optimistic Leaders” as we each work to build equity and reciprocity in our relationships (Jablon, Parks, and Ensler, 2021):

Think Impact — Reflect on how your words and actions might affect others. Ask yourself, “How am I inviting others to share their thoughts, to express their wisdom, and to learn together?”
Cultivate Self-Awareness — Notice how your background, culture, knowledge, and experiences affect your thoughts and actions as you build relationships. Are you willing to be an equal partner?
Nurture Relationships — Stay genuine and take your time in building relationships. How are you showing respect to others and how are they respecting you?
Refine Communication — Notice whether your conversations are two-way. How are you inviting a back and forth?
Activate Curiosity — Consider ways you are showing interest in the other person. Are you using questions to learn?

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