What Do You Think?

06/19/2009

As human beings, our job in life is to help people realize how rare and valuable each one of us really is, that each of us has something that no one else has or ever will have.
Fred Rogers

When someone has asked, "What do you think?" have you ever regretted that you responded? Like when your spouse asks, "Do I look fat in this?"

In Work & Family Life (June 2009) David Maister offers this advice on giving advice...

Ask yourself: Does she really want my advice? Or has he made up his mind and just wants me to agree with him?
Consider the impact of your advice on your relationship. When asked for personal advice, instead of replying directly, encourage friends to ask questions that will help them come up with their own conclusions.
People don't like to hear "You are wrong." Being too direct can be harmful. Try to make positive as well as negative points — and be sure to say that you will be supportive no matter what decision is reached.
Invest time. Be willing to spend some time and effort helping friends reach good decisions. They will remember that you cared enough to help.

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