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In her Parenting Exchange article, "Grandparents: The Bridge Between Generations," Karen Stephens shares ideas on the rewarding, but tricky, role of grandparenting...
"To perform the role with style and grace, it takes an understanding heart, a patient demeanor, and a wise soul. It's not easy handing over the childrearing reigns. It requires setting aside ego and personal preferences.
"Even in the most compatible families, grandparents tiptoe a fine line, constantly seeking the delicate balance between extremes. They want to be involved, but not intrusive. They want to be helpful, but not domineering. They want to be respected, but not feared. They want to be interested, but not busybodies. Mostly they want to be welcomed into grandkids' daily lives, not just their holiday celebrations.
"Most grandparents successfully create a cozy, indispensable niche within the heart of the family. Even when families live states apart, parents tell me grandparents are the first people they turn to when tykes are ill, when behavior becomes challenging, or when crisis strikes. It's as true today as it was in yester-year: grandparents are the most reliable support system families have. As it should be."
Editor's Note:
The reason we selected this particular message was that as of July 28 we, too, are now grandparents. Here is a picture of our lovely new grandchild, Zachary.
Contributed by Bonnie and Roger Neugebauer
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