Managing Challenging Behaviors Verbally

09/28/2005

Managing Challenging Behaviors Verbally

Every beetle is a gazelle in the eyes of its mother.
Arab Proverb

In their Beginnings Workshop article, “Managing Challenging Behaviors: Adult Communication As a Prevention and Teaching Tool,” (Exchange, July 2005), Tom Udell and Gary Glasenapp observe that the manner and quality with which adults give directives and verbally interact with young children can make a big difference in the kinds of behaviors exhibited by those children. Here are some of the guidelines they offered for providing verbal guidance to minimize challenging behavior . . .

“Avoid using questions you do not mean to ask. Use question statements only when you truly intend to provide a choice. A direct request such as, ‘Jason, please wash your hands,’ is preferable to ‘Jason, will you wash your hands before snack?’

“State requests and directions in a positive manner. Asking a child to ‘Walk in the classroom’ is more positive and more clearly understood than ‘Don’t run.’

“Avoid repeating requests and directives. Repeating directives can become troublesome because children quickly learn that they are not expected to respond the first time they are given a direction. Adults do not want to inadvertently teach children that it is okay to ignore requests that are made of them.”

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