Article Link: http://exchangepress.com/article/the-future-is-in-our-hands/5023357/
AUTHOR’S NOTE: For the purpose of clarity and ease of reading, when referring to a child, it will be in the masculine; the caregiver/adult will always be referred to in the feminine.
Being touched is paramount to every baby’s daily life. The young child’s well-being will depend, in great part, on the way he is touched by the adult. Through the use of our hands, we bathe, feed, and dress these precious souls. Our hands, therefore, represent everything to the infant, not only by the adult that cares for him, but as an expression of the entire world, thus becoming his first connection with the universe around him.
As the late modern dance pioneer Martha Graham once proclaimed, “Movement never lies,” and to that I add, nor do hands. Consider this: If they are rough, impersonal, and rushed during moments of care, the infant will link these experiences to unpleasant sensations. Indeed, he may look forward to finishing the task by exhibiting resistance, yet the adult may fail to read any cues emanating from the baby’s tense body.
Similarly, when one is in a hurry to finish a task — thinking that the quicker it gets done, for example, the better — she will ...